Artemisia de Vine: Sexual Fantasy and Desire Coach

deVining the Erotic


with sexologist and retired sex worker, Artemisia de Vine


Exploring the psychology behind what turns us on, how to play with it on purpose, and where we go inside ourselves when we do.

The art of playing on purpose in the bedroom. 

I want you to be turned on by my turn-ons! 

Psychologist Sophia Graham and I had such a fab discussion about the conundrum of not feeling safe to let go sexually unless our partner is also turned on by our turn ons.

The only problem is, everyone has unique sexual wiring and no one is a perfect match! 

Sophia added another super valuable dimension to this same emotional tussle by talking about all the ways in which we feel this in other areas of our relationships too, and offered some tools for navigating this. 


Discussion with Artemisia de Vine and Sophia Graham.
I want you to want what I want

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Scrumptious bedroom insights and stories on the nature of desire, our unique erotic wiring and how to create fabulous adult date nights for ourselves and each other.

Private Coaching with Artemisia de Vine

When it comes to sex, do you sense there is something more possible?

What would it be like to be gently guided into the fuller possibilities of your erotic being?

Discover ways in which to:

  • Tune into your true desires
  • Understand your unique turn-ons.
  • Experience the places inside yourself that your unique erotic wiring is trying to take you.
  • Be able to take turns creating intentional sexual experiences for yourself and your sexual partner/s?

    Book your complimentary 20min zoom call to see if we are a good fit for private coaching. 
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Support for your ongoing Erotic Self Discovery

Artemisia is writing a book sharing her stories, insights and skills in the erotic arts.

Receive a chapter a fortnight to keep you on track in your journey for a richer erotic life. 

It is one thing to read a book and another entirely to interact with the author and discuss concepts as you go. 

Join other members of The deVinery in monthly live zoom calls where we discuss how concepts apply in your lives. 

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